There are many fears we can find these days in a human personality, these fears also have many disadvantages that a man who suffers from these fears will have to deal with. Well I think the fear which can be most hurtful and stressful is the Fear of Rejection. Now there is much kind of rejections that we can be fearful. If some classmates of a student are making a cricket team and they want one more bowler in their team and that student wants to be in the team but he is hesitating to ask them that he can join their team or not. Here some people would say that he has confidence problem, and he don’t have enough confidence that he can ask them without hesitating. Absence of confidence can be a factor but I think the thing which is going in his mind is that will they accept him or not? He is just afraid of the word “NO”. He doesn’t want to be rejected by someone because it will hurt his feeling. Now maybe if he asks them they will take him into team without even thinking but he is not going to ask because he is scared and afraid of getting rejected by these people. Some people when finding jobs also hesitate in interviews because they don't want to be rejected.

You can also take the example of a boy who wants to be friends with his classmate (female). Now a person who is scared of rejection will never ask her to be his friend because if he did he has a fear that if she rejected him the distance between them will increase. There is also a factor of hope involved that people hope that they have not been rejected so there is some hope left. I think we have to try to overcome that fear and say whatever we want to say to anyone. If we will not then we will have problems in socializing with other people. And if someone rejects you then you have to be normal with them. You don’t have to grow anger or revenge towards those people. Beccause I have seen some people in my life who were rejected by someone and after that they had a grudg against them.